Getting to Neutral

April 30, 2022

Neutral not helping or supporting either side in the conflict. That’s the adjective neutral, the noun, an impartial or unbiased person. Neutral can also be a color. What is getting to neutral in your grief? Erica and I often help grievers get to neutral. In the middle, not having an emotional reaction or emotional feeling one way or the other you’re just there. You’re just in a neutral state where prior to that state, you had a ton of emotions going on.

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